Death is Final, Impact is Forever

I try to post my blogs on Wednesday. But this Wednesday I attended my little cousin Dorian Johnson’s homegoing service and I was too exhausted to write. Black folk always ask… “How was the funeral?” I must say the service wasn’t sad. His younger brothers and cousin Brittany did a wonderful job with his legacy.

However, it was a rough experience for me because I have been dealing with the grief of losing my grandmother this week. It's been two years, almost three but I'm still struggling. That’s because she had an intentional impact on my life. That’s similar to the life Dorian led with many of those around him. He impacted many.

Although death is final, impact is forever. It’s a saying I heard and it stays with me.....people will always remember how you made them feel.

If you’re reading this I want you to be reminded that life is fragile, but the mark you leave on others is lasting. Titles, possessions, and accomplishments fade, but the way you pour into people, the kindness you show, and the love you give, those things live on long after you’re gone.

My grandmother’s legacy still guides me, and her impact continues to echo in my life. That’s the true measure of a life well-lived.

So today, I encourage you to be intentional with your words, your actions, and your presence. Don’t wait to celebrate people until it’s too late. Give flowers while they can still smell them, speak life while ears can still hear, and create moments that will one day become cherished memories.

Because when your chapter closes, it won’t be the length of your days people remember, it will be the depth of your impact. 🌹 #grief #impact #intentional